Sometimes…And Sometimes Not. Being Who You Are and Getting What You Need. by ChelaDavison   Sometimes you need to think positive… …and sometimes you need to sit your ass down in a dark corner with melancholy music on and bawl your effing eyes out for like four days. Sometimes you need to sort out what’s happening inside yourself before you speak or act… …and sometimes you need to splay the mess out there, all risky like, and allow the next step, insight or direction to show itself through real relating. Sometimes you need to push yourself to ship or launch… …and sometimes you need to relax and surrender into just how terrified…